{"id":2781,"date":"2019-11-07T02:22:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-07T02:22:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bnewstv.com\/news\/?p=2781"},"modified":"2019-11-07T02:22:19","modified_gmt":"2019-11-07T02:22:19","slug":"majangan-ghibahi-aku-please","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bnews.id\/?p=2781","title":{"rendered":"Ma\u2026jangan ghibahi aku, please!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cNtah kenapa ya, anak gue tu payah banget,\n nakalnya kelewatan, jorok plus bau lagi, omongannya tu nyakitin \nbathin\u201d. Seorang ibu berkata. Teman obrolannya pun menimpali, \u201clu masih \nuntung jeng\u2026anak gue, ya elaa, kalau gak buat rusuh di rumah, gak puas \nhatinya, sama tu kayak babenya, nurun kali ya, hahaha\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Di sudut sana seorang anak kecil yang \ndiceritakan ibunya tampak malu dan gusar hatinya sebab menjadi bumbu \nmanis basa-basi orang tua yang bertemu tanpa topik diskusi yang jelas. \nIa tak mampu berbuat apa-apa, dalam hatinya ia mengutuk keadaan dan \ningin saja hilang seketika meninggalkan tempat itu, sebab ia merasa \nbiang masalah dan pasti selanjutnya siapapun menerima informasi tentang \ndirinya itu akan melihat dengan kesan negatif.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anda tahu dampaknya? Pikiran seperti itu \nakan membekas pada memorinya, dan setiap waktu diksi \u201cnakal, jorok \nataupun bau\u201d akan terulang-ulang dalam dzikirnya, dan akhirnya akan ada \nmagnet yang menariknya dengan kuat untuk mewujudkan itu semua, sehingga \nakhirnya ia benar-benar nakal, bau dan jorok sejati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ghibah, ya ghibah. Anda tahu ghibah? Rasul\n pernah menjelaskan bahwa ghibah adalah menyebutkan sesuatu hal yang \nterkait orang lain yang apabila ia mengetahui pembicaraan itu, pasti ia \nmembencinya. Lebih dahsyatnya, ghibah ibarat memakan bangkai saudara \nsendiri yang sangat menjijikkan bagi kita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Banyak mama-mama bila bersua mengadakan \nperlombaan ghibah berjama\u2019ah, dan yang paling buruk justru yang \ndighibahi adalah anaknya sendiri ; yaitu darah, tulang dan dagingnya \nsendiri. Ishhh..sangat menjijikkan sekali, bagaimana mungkin ia sanggup \nmemakan bangkainya sendiri. Sekeji binatang buas sekalipun, tak sanggup \nmemakan bangkainya sendiri. Dan yang lebih parah, dengan melakukan itu \nmaka Anda sesungguhnya telah merusak spikologis si anak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Didiklah ia dengan kalimat motivasi, \najarilah ia dengan berpikir positif, bimbinglah ia dengan keteladanan. \nMaka kelak ia akan menyayangimu dengan tulus. Ketika ada beberapa orang \ntua mengadukan masalah anaknya yang \u201cdurhaka\u201d, saya tak pernah serta \nmerta memvonis anaknya lah yang bersalah, selalu saja setelah dirunut \ndari awal jalan kehidupan si anak, maka akan kita temui ada episode \nintimidasi bathin yang pernah diperoleh anak sebelum ia membalikkan \nkeadaan itu pada hari ini.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kekuatan kata-kata dapat menembus ruang \nimajinasinya, power sebuah kalimat dapat menggerakkan alam bawah \nsadarnya. Sehingga terlahirlah sebuah ungkapan, \u201csatu peluru hanya dapat\n menembus satu kepala, tapi satu kata dapat menembus jutaan isi kepala\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stop bullying anak, stop ghibahi anak. Berikan haknya untuk dimuliakan, kelak ia akan memuliakanmu\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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